Of course, she doesn’t have to know that you send this same message to all the women who mention sports in their bios: Having something in common increases attraction, since people tend to be more comfortable with other people who remind them of themselves.
Have you started thinking that the more attractive a woman is on Tinder, the less likely she is to respond to your messages?
It may seem like no matter how many openers you send out to your matches, it’s all crickets and tumbleweeds. She swiped right, and you’ve got some pretty decent material.
Why not ask her a personality-based question that lets her think and talk about her #1 favorite topic?
Answering it will make her feel good, which is a point in your favor.
Even if she does reply to your “eh” message at first, she’s likely to stop responding before you get her number.