You’ve decided to try online dating and found yourself talking to a man that seems promising.
You decided to meet and on your first date things go great.
Addressing the Active Profile Issue with Tact First off, let me say that this guy’s “reason” for keeping his profile online makes absolutely no sense to me.
He’s saying that since the people who are contacting him put in the effort to contact him, he should respond to them.
Silly logic aside, I would ask any reader who has this issue the same thing I asked the woman who contacted me: are the two of you EXCLUSIVE and have you both made it clear that you are only interested in dating each other?