But I do know what it’s like to be the girl that is asked out by a wide variety of guys, in a wide variety of ways. He wasn’t a classically handsome man, but there was instant chemistry and I thought he was so cute. He came in the first weekend we’d opened a brand new location, and my friend Misti told me “that guy’s vibing you!
When I went to leave the store, he stopped me and gave me one of the store business cards.
Talking to a girl is difficult enough without having to deal with the complexities of follow-up, and a lot of guys make parallel mistakes when it comes to getting a girl’s phone number: On the one hand, there’s the guy who has a great time with a girl out at a bar or club, but is too timid to get her number.
On the other hand, there’s the guy who has a tenuous connection with a woman, but gets her number anyway more or less just to say that he did. The Art of Charm has a guide to not just if you should, but how to go about getting it.
Again, she might be good as a contact, but if you’re out trying to meet women for the purpose of dating, you should only get phone numbers from girls that you’re actually interested in.