And, if I’m being honest, someone with some money, too.
It was because of an innocent penchant for the older man.
Until this week, “modern” sugar daddy dating was barely known in Britain.
Receiving money or gifts from your date is his way of saying “I like you, I want to spend time with you, I want to sleep with you, but I’m not prepared to meet your family or go to Ikea with you on a weekend”.
His financial investment assuages his guilt that he can’t emotionally invest.
Of course, the fat, balding ones still went into the delete bin, but many were perfectly dateable.