That pain and hurt comes to your heart especially when death takes someone you love so much away from you.
Yes I have felt a bit of that in my past when I lost my wife.
It might be important to note that under this scammers a Facebook name of Chris Comstock that he subscribed to a group called: USNA a Class of 2000. Belongs to the same class as faked Linked In business entries : Nobody there checks their credentials, so there is nothing easier for a scammer than adding this "biographical info" on the web (and making you look at it), takes them five minutes or less and people believe they are a fellow "native American" Here are some letters from this scammer while using name Udo Coker which is a discontinued FB name at this time. A few things to note about this scammer: 1) he waits 3 weeks to a month to ask for money.
facebook.com/groups/15647489179/ He has been a member for a year. I sure hope he is not scamming their group members, but he likely has done that already. FYI - I asked this scammer to give me a picture of himself with 3 fingers up (within one minute) in order to prove to me he is who he says he is. 2) He does not claim to be in love as quickly as most.
He said anyone you meet who is in Nigeria, do not talk to them because the place is loaded with these scammers.