Maybe you'll take a slightly lesser position to be closer to family, or scale back on those 60-hour workweeks to devote more time to your relationship life."Carpenter says pick one or two categories or goals that you really want to devote yourself to, and put the majority of the emphasis there.
Hold on to your phones or computer mouses because you're about to get a little tough love.
The less time you spend with a dead-end dude, the more room you'll have to pace the relationship with a guy who seems like a potential winner.
"You don't want to rush the process with him," says Steinberg. Make a date with yourself for a cup of coffee or glass of wine, grab a notebook, and take stock of your behaviors in your 20s.
Actively position yourself to meet like-minded guys who are likely looking for legit, long-term relationships.
Steinberg says this might mean: getting online or taking online dating more seriously ( read those profiles!
Sure, you could theoretically meet your future life partner anywhere.