Halloweeen/costume parties Pretty much any costume is an excellent conversation starter. Beaches/poolside You've already seen each other in a bathing suit. Make them feel welcome by starting up a conversation! Community service days Who doesn't love a man committed to helping his community? Alumni events Talking about your alma mater is an easy icebreaker. Bike tours If you like cycling, this is an excellent, relaxing way to meet someone who does as well. Walking tours See a bit of the city and chat about what you come across! Group vacations If the idea of doing a trek up Machu Picchu appeals to both of you, you're off to a great start. Holiday parties Mistletoe and eggnog - this is a recipe for romance! Bar crawls Unlike regular bar drinking, this is a group activity, and everyone is getting friendlier as the crawl progresses. Libraries This is a great opportunity to practice eye contact! Nail salons More and more men are getting manicures and pedicures.
After all, for most of our lives, men were simple creatures.
Now, as we reach our 50s and 60s, the situation is somewhat more complicated.
If you have you have ever noticed that older men are unlikely to make eye contact with your or have felt completely ignored at a dance or party, Lisa thinks she knows why.
In our interview, I asked Lisa this question directly and she gave me a simple answer.
With those odds, theres a good chance your neighbor, your colleague, even your babysitter have all dipped their toes in the polyamorous lifestyle.